self-mastery Guilty as Charged My little 6-year old self was doing the best that she could with what she knew how to do at the time. That's all I can ask of her. It's not her fault the masculine didn't get there in time. That's part of learning and growing up. It's just part of the experience.
intuition Following Your Intuition Do you question it? Do you wonder if maybe it might be sniffing something it shouldn't be? Do you ignore it entirely or just filter it as craziness that your mind makes up?
argument The Chill Factor It's time to stop defending the old ways. It's time to put the sword down. I can let go of the whole thing and when I do it'll be just fine. The goal is to well and truly chill.
argument My Limited Perception My cards have been bugging me to write to get some clarity. Okay, fine. I'm here. Note to self: It's okay to be human and have those moments where we avoid things for a while. Procrastination is a thing and we all do it. There's nothing wrong with it. It
clarity The Dream Changed... Or Did It? Clarity is a good thing but sometimes it can sting just a bit. It's not a bad thing, but I'm having the grieve the business I thought I was creating to bring forward the community that I truly wanted to have.
writing Following Up and More Clarity I came to a new little bit of clarity last night and it was that the hopelessness was tied into needing to meet other's expectations. If I can't meet their expectations then it's hopeless. There is no point if I can't make everybody happy.
author My Mostly Unconscious Cycle If my blogs and my social media posts had a baby, this is it what it would be. I've wanted to do that since the beginning and I couldn't even after I healed the wound because my behavior was still stuck in the pain and I hadn't fixed that yet.
change I'm Tired I'm just here. I'm going to do my thing the way I know how to do it because that's really the only thing I've ever had control over. It's time for me to put my power back where I know it is, inside me doing the things that I want to do the way I want to do them. The end.
relationships Changing Relationships We are most attracted to like individuals. We find people we like that have the same wounds as us because it makes us feel comfortable and they seem to understand what we've been through.
argument 772 Words Later... This is what I did with my own thinking. When I was bought into the original story I was telling myself, it created an argument within me.
fear Healing Deep Wounds The pain will release on its own when the thought patterns and behaviors are no longer present. That's not to say that we won't trigger the pain sometimes. But it shouldn't be this big, awful dredging of the bottom of the river.
Time The Enemy of Time When it's the clock you're looking at and it's causing stress, it's time to shift away. It's time to stop paying attention to time. Take the clock down off the wall. Stop looking at it.
growth What I've Learned This Week I was hooked on numbers too, just like a lot of you are. It didn't work. It was frustrating and it was disempowering. Needing that outside feedback and making choices based on the lack of it caused pain.
consciousness I'm Trying Something New I'm going to be sharing my experience of writing for this contest with you. I can't share what I'm writing because the work needs to remain unpublished. But I will say that it is outside of my comfort zone.
growth The Potato is Harmless I realized the original object was a lukewarm potato and I was scared for no reason. The sword I had been carrying around was a little excessive. That poor potato didn't stand a chance.
healing Healing: What If It's a Solo Journey? The conscious engagement with your mind actually creates a two-way conversation instead of a one-sided argument. It allows you the ability to question your own thinking and find some truth for yourself.
force Forcing Relationships When we have an experience we consider negative, we take it to mean that we're bad or that there is something wrong with us. When that person cuts us off in traffic we immediately wonder what we did wrong to deserve that experience. That's not the point of the experience.
healing A System of Extremes Why make life harder than it needs to be? Find a perception that helps you control the pain and manage the problems you can't solve. It's the easiest and simplest way forward you have.
News Featured Transparency Ahead I'm going to use all these topics to start asking questions and identify stories. Am I going to trigger your fears? Probably. But honestly that's kind of the point. If I trigger your fear it's an opportunity for you to question the fear.
healing Staying in The Room How many things in your life have you run away from the minute they got uncomfortable? How many places in your life have you re-directed yourself because you got spooked by something? Probably a lot. Don't think you're alone in that. I spent years of my life running away from everything. I get it.
healing The Argument is the Problem We argue with it because we identify so strongly with the problem. The identification with the problem means we defend it vehemently. The argument with the problem becomes more of an argument for the problem.
healing Mission Accomplished (Sort Of) Cycle repetition. Do you recognize it when it happens? Do you notice that the same things keep happening; the same problems keep occurring? Do you ever wonder why? Let me share my experience of cycle repetition in my own life right now. There's a cycle happening for me. Having to
spirtiuality The Shift to 5D and The Inevitable Split I wrote a post about how things like racism, homophobia, and hate speech were all forms of pain. This is pain that's easy to recognize. People easily see that there is a lot of fear behind these things. It's the fear that gets people to do or say things they wouldn't normally do or say.
